From the amazing Eve Wilson, see her inspiring posts on spiritualhealers.com/blogpost about love being a two-way street or flow...including loving oneself to allow more love in and to flow to others. That can help keep things in balance. I got a letter in the The Lakeville Journal of CT as tricornernews.com and there are back issues available digitally via the Scoville Memorial Library too. Keep learning from the past to improve the future.