Heaven comes to earth one baby at a time..and as we nurture them, or fail to do so, we get 'feedback'. Even with the 'best heartfelt care' we can find our returns on investment (ROI--new term I just learned) not resonating with our hopes and efforts. Still, a 'greater realm of love and possibility may be ushered in, to 'be our neighbor's keeper with gentle interventions, offers to explore options and protection of those they may be harming (especially women, youth, kids..but other men or women too).
No one lives in a bubble once one is born.