I am hearing some of this talk https://youtu.be/AKTyPgwfPgg by John Gottman. He is easy to listen to and yet is sharing ideas that may not be easy for some people to consider easily. That could be a red flag...People could have more checklists about basic skills (considering who one is before expecting to be able to connect with someone in a fair, friendly manner.)
I will keep this brief but hopefully will spark more interest in the awarenesss of emotional intelligence. It's important for people to 'stop and say thank you' to help one another to express appreciation.
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