So with trick-or-treating pretty much finished up across the USA, let's find ways to keep Treating Everyone With Care and Kindness, the way one would like to be treated! That said if someone is 'off base' or WOB, "Way Off Base" it can be helpful to learn more about what's going on. See the training and info offered by domesticshelters.org as well as resources on David Mandel and others site, Safe&TogetherInstitute.com. There's a new program available for a monthly (or yearly) subscription to a "Web-based Perpetrator Pattern Mapping Tool."
There are also many programs available via podcasts
