Thanks for this, Brian..men tend to listen to men a bit better..and women also do. Meanwhile there's a national annual conference in Albany NY in early May 2018, Battered Mothers Custody Conference. See the site for the latest speakers. It is unbelievable the amount of misery women and children suffer 'almost in the town square' in every state even though the national laws have been created to protect them...and yes male victims too...but it turns out it is basically a problem of "male violence against women'.
That means the problem should be a bit easier to spot..and that more women should