Coast to Coast Healing on World Peace Day (9/21) and through the Weekend of Concert Across America...

Jennifer McLean has a very effective way of reaching out to thousands of people over the internet. If you love that sense of tuning into life and knowing you are not alone or all that different from anyone else in this human realm, she's a go-to gal..and only a click away at Jennifer McLean or Healing With The Masters (I am not paid or compensated other than by universal flow of good energy for mentioning this by the way.)

She is generally in Cally-for-Nye-Ay! (California) but is Coming to Kripalu to do a weekend retreat in early November 2017, which of course is just around the corner on the calendar and only a few hours north from NYC in Western MA, north of Great Barrington MA (and do stop into the Berkshire Co-Op and Crystal Essence (in GB, MA 01230) for an hour each if possible if you are able to make the trip as extra treats.) Welcome in adance, Jennifer McLean! I'm telling Suzanne O'Brien about you of doulagivers.org (and will tell my FB group of End of Life Doulas...).

She is in CA right now promoting that new important supportive work! Small country sometimes when I realize I have connections to both coasts and some of my peeps are crossing back and forth, much like my parents did first to meet in WWII then to settle and start a family that basically kept growing over many years to a dozen and lots of grandkids. These modern times and healing work can help on many levels from telling one's life story and honoring one's unique experiences and insights..to inpiring healing and helping others.

So thanks to all in those pathways at this important time (even now during Climate Change Awareness Week in NYC...and with the Jewish holidays in full flow, it's a good time to reflect on our cultural and spiritual roots, legacies and actions, checking that there is integrity and accountability even though that may seem an uphill quest. We need the light and love to come through for many people to help us face a future of certain challenge. See Steven Greer's work on youtube and netflix asap..and more on www.noliesradio.org and www.patriotsquestion911.org or com...

Thanks for all you brave and do, each and every and in wider circles since we are all in this together 'for better or for worse...' And while marriage is not always in vogue, relationships and legal agreements for parenting, marriage or divorce need more highlighting in our media so people are not thinking "marriage is only a continuation of their affection in a relationship..it's a legal contract, full of complicated repercurssions the minute it is signed and registered...so Please see my posts and others who encourage a year or more of planning the details of the agreement (do you want kids, want to share money and assets...which is a given in some states, but not all...and what about time apart, seeing other people socially or whose working, how to address schedules,housework, car or other maintenance jobs and expenses..

.It all needs a lot of thought and honest follow-through, and not everyone has a clue What is really involved. Will you each have support in your roles from family and friends who you can talk with regularly or ways to find answers online or in books (a little of each.) Thinking you can handle everything alone as a couple may be a very steep hill to climb, especially in the first few years and at younger ages, but really at any stage of the game, lots of small matters need to fit together so the love and life can flow in a balanced manner.

The following is a post-I'll tell you when it starts-- I put on a private FB page as I was joining in to a replay of live FB post. I have to listen to all ten lessons or so (note to self...maybe everyone can make a note about things they are trying to commit to And Follow through with by listing events on a calendar, time for lessons online and off, using google calendar with its reminder system..I have one recurring one that says Plan the Day..that means think about what I'm doing and allow for flexibility unless it's an important appointment, etc...then That New Revised Plan is the Real POA, plan of action. Jen and others share the idea of improving over time is important to value and not worry about a few set-backs here and there..even 'gurus' have them.

Doesn't that make you feel more normal and successful? I also hope to listen more often to Marianne.com and LCIM, Living a course in miracles, a free online program. Deepak and Tolle are offering a cool program as well, butt that four hundred isn't in my budget that I know of. I am open to 'angel sponsors' if someone is feeling inspired in my circles here or elsewhere to fund any of the above (McLean's weekend at Kripalu would run about 600 with housing and meals...and Deepak's is 400 but is all recorded and has lifetime access and a FB group and lots more.

Sometimes I need to feel it's okay to just Know these things are happening..and since I've had a certain 'light and information' process I've been told I wouldn't (and almost shouldn't) seek anything else which may confuse the frequencies a bit...those are my words (and I took out the proprietary name of the program I'm talking about for now, but look up The Reconnection and read for yourself what if offers..They have a training happening This Weekend in Montreal..and it could be very cool to take it if you are Anywhere near or up for that..

. There are programs periodically and online first level I am curious about, having already taken all the levels from the former program model. About 100 K people have, but they are clarifying what they want people to do and how to keep 'current' with their policies and so on. These efforts can help others realize we are likely in need of more independent initiatives to help people feel connected and empowered...to help clear the FOG (fear, obligation, guilt, doubt and genuince cobwebs of social dysfunction in almost every family, group or community..we're human after all..so if we were perfect then we likely would be robots. But seriously..let's commend one another for 'showing up for this part and time of life'...and make the most of it in a fair-minded caring way.

The love vibe is powerful yet underplayed due to busyness and lots of other reasons everyone knows and feels is 'best not to mess with...'

I spoke with a laddio today in the park with his twin sister and Mom present...and we covered the idea that boys are coached to run fast and jump high and hold the door open for girls who are mainly supposed to walk through the door and be treated with respect

He said that seemed stupid and unfair. I told him it mostly was yet overall helpful to know about before he became a big guy and expected anything different in terms of his rough housing (for example, what if he pointed a stick that happened to be shaped like a gun(as he noted) at someone or close to one's  head for instance...) I told him neither the stick or the action would be permissible in CT especially not on a  public playground and bigtime not okay at a school playground.

I went over the idea of 'you get what you give out energetically, with words and actions, so in terms of the revenge he felt he owed his sister or anyone, that might not be a good plan to keep feeling resentful. He would need other options..and likely he actually needs a fair amount of ongoing counseling to sort these issues out.

The family was open and speaking to some of the points but likely there's a layer of underlying issues, emotions, not feeling as big and strong as his sister who was larger than he was but seemed fairly mellow. There likely were episodes from the past he read as reason to 'seek to even the score' and be mean if not intend some harm to her, but mostly they seemed like very upscale people.

Then there was the issue of considering if having friends and seeking loving relationships was a more powerful, winning stance than being mean or violent. He pointed out quickly that Rafael (the red-head banded Ninja Turtle) turned on his friends at one point (maybe when he became influenced or transformed to an evil dude.) The reality was that his inside connections and bonds were going to work against the group. I used that point to verify that the closer people are, the more vulnerable they can be to any number of mishaps or bad intentions. and that's what's very tricky about living with others or trying to have relationships.

They can be good or have serious problems. Sometimes you can remedy things or see trouble coming, and sometimes not so much. That's where the karma or one's energetic intention (what we really intend and focus on with our thinking rather than the fleeting thoughts or movies and stories we hear..but again may want to measure and assess whether they are worth our time and energy emotionally since even shows may get us thinking and acting in certain ways we really don't intend to, especially over time.

Some say there is a lot of subliminal messaginig in many ads and movies, music and media in general (audio, visual and who knows What...) I gently joked with the mom that I could see she sheltered her children a lot. She assured me that they talk everything over with the kids, but it seems we all can acknowledge that kids are having their own experiences and thinking things out 'for themselves'...and it may take more than we realize (see Lionheart.org, a foundation to help kids get centered and sense what their feelings, beliefs and actions are about with lots of coaching I believe for acting more responsbily over time...)Back to the consequences of ever being violent or acting in a concerning manner...

 I spoke with the young lad as I did my own son, Kaelan ( see Remembering Kaelan Alexander for more info about his wonderful life through his mid-teens but the many factors I feel played a part in a difficult few years and his sudden heroic passing trying to save friends).  Maybe with Kaelan and all my kids I did  'too much so he stopped listening after many years...but then again he was mainly a good egg following the laws and wanting the best for people so likely he agreed with the bulk of what I said but as a teen was not able to acknowledge that readily, though he did give me a hug on my birthday and was a very friendly soul to many where others might have held back whether greeting kids on a first day of high schoolt, himself a freshman, or on the folk dance floors dancing with people of all ages.)

I was telling the lad that doing so could get one in big trouble with the police (were he seen or reported.)...and if the police told him to put it down, he shouldn't just try to show them that it is  stick..that could get him killed by mistake. His mother echoed that was the case for a boy in Ohio. Another person I spoke to about all that said 'and it wasn't just one police man, a few opened up fire." I then told the ten year old boy who happened to be white that black kids, especially boys, had it twice as bad and knew from a young age that they had to monitor their behavior.

An African American minister in the Brooklyn area talked about 'The Talk" one has to have with kids, especially boys.  I thought she was going to cover something about responsible relationships and not having premarital or unprotected sex. But no, it was about how to behave to stay alive if ever coming into contact with the law. Now we all realize anyone can be in harm's way when "people with guns who are legally allowed a lot of leeway to use them" show up...so Think Twice and Try to set clear safety guidelines in one's home, neighborhood, school and work place and when driving to avoid conflict and particularly from allowing That to escalate or to become chronic or even intermittent without attention (that would be described as a negative peace by the Martin Luther King Jr folks.)

Okay, on that note, I will try to put in more details about how to do the prevention pieces soon...(note to self#55.) On a sweet note ,a young child I care for gave me a hug on their own initiative and a kiss on the cheek (just putting her face close to mine...) Sometimes words are not needed...

 Here's the Post to the Jen McLean FB friends...Enjoying this replay on World Peace Day after writing a huge post on my blog, livfully.org..about how our viewpoints shape our experience in life..in dying and even beyond (based on many theories so it's mostly asking questions..the big What IFs...)

So thanks for the many insights you've shared, tools, tips, keeping it real and 'coming East energy' which I'm happy about though don't know I will get to the program...I'm open to sponsoring angels if it's s'posed to be though...it'd be a nice completion of year 1 and a half since tuning into your programs' by chance, getting in on a live call the first try (having listened for only a few minutes so not really aware of all you do...).

Okay, onward and upward with good vibes for this weekend too when there's a Concert Across America series for peace and safety..(worth a google, and I'll be at the Carey Gabay Fdtn one in NYC and wearing a dark circle--of volcanic material-- with a snowflake bright design if anyone wants to join me...and say hello, who knows?) The code NY2017 saves one 40 off the price too. Hugs to one and al